Roadblocks

Reflecting on how we can unknowingly step out of alignment with what God is already doing — and what surrender truly looks like.

By Steve Wilkins

Why is it so hard to get out of our own way?

If a runaway dump truck were barreling toward us, every fiber of our being would scream, “Get out of the way!” And we would.
If we knew a meteorite was heading for our location, we’d scramble to safety.
If someone intended us harm, we’d instinctively flee.

These are situations where our natural fight or flight response kicks in.

But what about when something good is coming our way?

It seems that one of the greatest obstacles to receiving what God desires to do in us is often... us.


I’m reminded of a familiar preacher’s story — not as doctrine, but as illustration:

A man died and went to heaven, where Jesus showed him the wonders of eternity — family reunited, the beauty of heaven, and a mansion prepared for him. Eventually, they came to a street of warehouses. One of them bore the man’s name. Inside were countless gifts. “What is all this?” the man asked. Jesus replied, “These are things I longed to give you — but you were too busy chasing other things.”


Jesus pointed out in the Parable of the Sower:

The worries of this life, the deceitfulness of wealth and the desires for other things come in and choke the word, making it unfruitful. —Mark 4:18–19

Notice that the problem isn’t evil. It’s distraction. The “other things” are often good things — they're just not Him.


God is not trying to improve us. He is making us new (Revelation 21:5).

And while God is never limited in power or purpose, our openness, attention, and surrender determine how much fruit His work produces in us.

Sometimes the roadblocks aren’t sin — but distraction.
Even spiritual activity can become an obstacle when it replaces intimacy.
When the focus shifts from the Giver to the gifts, we step out of alignment.


So maybe the prayer isn’t, “God, do something new,” but rather, “God, help me stop getting in the way of what You are already doing.”

I surrender. I choose You. Whatever it takes, I'm getting out of the way.


All Scripture quotations are from the New American Standard Bible (NASB), unless otherwise noted.

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